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She only 'said' she was BPD self diagnosed

women have huge problems with narcissistic tendencies in the modern day

Your a blessing. I’m in therapy now for this very situation. And I have a child due a day after my birthday with this same woman. It’s been hell👌🏾

This fake syndrome was fabricated by a pedophile psychiatrist to help pedophile fathers keep raping their daughters after the divorce and it is still being used in many countries to trap women and children to contact their abusing ex husband/father even if the child doesn't want. Women try to protect themselves and their children from abuse and the court says 'No you are are crazy you lie' and force the child to keep seeing a father that heats her or rapes her because....he doesn't it's all lies of the 'parent- alianating' mother. You should have done better research before this video. Except if you support child abusers and violence against women and children of course

I have borderline. For years already. It has been horrible. Around me there was always chaos. I couldnt keep a job. Every romantic relationship stranded. So many things didnt work out like wirh most people. Im older now and it feels like the high peaks are gone. Because you learn lessons after all having borderline. But it never goes completely away, i think. But with experience and medication and professionals around you it becomes manageble and livable. Sad thing is that the borderline took all I loved away from me. Everything! How different my life would have been if I didnt have borderline. And that makes me somewhat angry and very sad at the same time. The way your mind works thats how you behave, think experience things. To me it was so normal how I lived because I was programmed this way. That I lost it all because of myself is sad. Its a terrible, terrible desease. And the things they say or write about us dont make things better. Im so glad that my daughter is healthy in body and mind. Cause it really isnt a gift when you get it!!

Wow this was helpful but makes me very sad. I was so naive in the beginning especially when “she” was so happy to see the closeness of my son and I and thought that was an indication of how he would treat her. Fast forward I am doing everything for them and helped my son with many of the wedding arrangements to the point where I made myself sick. Post wedding I am dropped like a hot potato. My birthday goes unnoticed and Christmas is all about gifts for them and the kids. Thank God his daughter’s mother sees this and has offered for me to see my granddaughter. His new wife rags on the little girls mom constantly and most recently my granddaughter started her cycle while she was with my son and they would not let her call her mother. That was the icing on the cake for me. The new wife has now ghosted me and given me the silent treatment when we are at sporting events. It hurts my heart and I am working with it the best I can. Doing lots of praying especially for my granddaughter.

Could you please do a video about what’s going through a female narcissist mind when you turn down there sexual advances & friendship offer. It’s not a lot of videos out there explaining this

This is my ex. Now she is pregnant with “my baby “. I’m getting a dna test 👌🏾

All of this sounds frighteningly familiar...

Funny how my narcissist in laws would say this about me as their daughter in law. My mother in law said I was "taking away" her son when we got engaged. She already viewed me as a threat from the beginning. I dealt with over 10 years of mental anguish and abuse from my in laws. I ended up with ptsd and had to go on medications. The stress caused Fibromyalgia and other health issues in my body. My doctors kept asking me what was wrong. They knew something was causing the problem and I kept it hidden for my husband's sake. These people used me and played mind games with me. Nothing I did was good enough to please them. They even tricked us into paying extra money for my mother in law's bday party. That's just underhanded and evil. They tried to take over my wedding and did the same to my brother in law's wife. When I started putting my foot down and saying NO, the abuse got worse. My husband tried reasoning with them to no avail. It's been over a decade with no contact and they still hoover and stalk us. They blame me for everything when I did nothing but try to please those demons. They have issues with everyone who marries into their family. They even use religion as a weapon, telling me I'm supposed to forgive them yet they don't believe they did anything wrong. Truth is, majority of the time, it's the mother in law who's at fault and has zero self awareness to realize that she's the problem.

But the structure of the brain forms because of early childhood experiences and trauma.

my husband and i just recently discovered i have BPD after already 6 years of marriage and a decade of being together. it explains so many things, this video brought me so much hope. i’m here for him 😂

I believe your experience and expertise, though I wonder if the UA-cam Ai is leading me down a road. I've done some searching on the internet now I'm seeing things everywhere. Regardless all the things you mention are true in my relationship. I'm actually afraid to bring things up due to anger and vindictive behavior. I feel like such a wimp, most times just don't even notice how manipulated I've been. I make excuses as sometimes I have narcissistic actions probably out of pent up frustration? Truth is I just want to leave, this is after 33 years. Typing this into space I guess just to vent. Doing therapy now.

Wow this describes about 90% of the famale population in todays world

It was like she read the script and you told my story. She quickly started losing interest in me after confronting her about this betrayal and then not falling for her gaslighting or baiting anymore.

Wow, thank you so much for this!! I've watched 50+ hours of similar content, but this video was the real eye opener. I have encountered such a person. I am a highly sensitive empath and know now which people to avoid. They don't recognise their own mistakes, so they can't learn and progress. Thank you!! ❤❤❤

The scary part is that I lived this, but my wife was also a narcissist.

I still tear up over this crap. Just because I had already paid my dues in the shit guy department so I was just so happy to think I finally found someone who will care about me. It just all sucks. It happened again after him with someone else. I don’t even want to try again

I WAS SLEEP

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. What about fool me for 17 years? Lol. Thank God I’ve finally realized what’s going on and I’m trying to get out now. Thank God I never had kids with her

Always remember that you are dealing with a toddler who is trapped in a grown body. If you want to choose for the lies (about the smallest things), infidelity, extreme moodswings/tantrums, triangulation, manipulation, projecting, walking on eggshells, future faking, et cetera....choose for the niece of the narcissist, a.k.a. the borderline. You'll end up loosing yourself, drained from your energy, tired and empty.

I was with a covert female narcissist for around a year, she basically did all those things listed until i caught her talking to other guys. Of course, after that she tried to manipulate me lying straight to my face even though at that point it was pretty obvious to me she was lying. Then tried to convince me that what she did was okay, even though she would get mad at me for liking some instagram photos of girls I knew before i met her claiming that "i was giving them attention". I feel sorry for her because her being a narcissist isn't really her fault since she grew up in an extremely toxic environment but that wasn't really my fault and im not the one who must suffer the consequences. Leaving her was really hard since i really loved that girl but i know if i stayed longer in that relationship it would actually ruin me mentally, like waiting for a time bomb to go off. I deserve better than that.

Ok, PLEASE STOP! There’s no hoovering He’s happy and in love These videos are garbage 😡

Helpful video, thank you. The covert female psychopath who manipulated me and took advantage of my affable nature for seven years, certainly seems to fit the factor 1 points in the video - although the extent of lies, lies and lies does not come over strongly enough perhaps. However, she also fits the more extreme points for factor 2 - grandiosity for example. If psychopathy is a scale, where does extreme narcissistic personality disorder end and clinical psychopathy begin? In my experience with this covert female psychopath, if a narcissist is capable of emotion, then they are much of factor 2 and are simply extreme narcissists. If they are NOT capable of emotion, and can only charm or fake it by learning it from how others behave, then that IS a psychopath. I'm not sure I subscribe to these factor 1 and factor 2 indicators...and am slightly averse to Hollywood clips and psychopathy. I will look at where these categories come from though, in case I am missing something.

NO CONTACT is the only solution....

It's the 🐱 that traps you.

Does a narcissist ever fall in love?

This video was meant for me unfortunately

Im really experiencing this now

Dang step 1 is exactly what I went through with my girl. Step 2 I am doing now and it’s exhausting to me. She goes through my phone 4 times a month. She shares her location 24/7 and still question me. Yes naggy and nitpicking is beyond exhausting. I am giving up. We went through step 4 and broke up multiple times and this time I don’t think I can do this relationship. 😢 I tried.

Great insight, from a female perspective, I experienced these signs. My story, which didn't end well after seven years, shared in case it helps others. One word at the end needs a reader's head to be empty of misconceptions about certain females - empty it now! Intelligent, affable, empathetic guy (teacher) meets intelligent seemingly relaxed easy-going female (nurse) online, shared interest in countryside hiking, both aged fifty-seven. Invited to visit the following weekend. She orchestrates a very odd seemingly planned sexual event, this the first big clue, rare in years after - later pointing to a tool for narcissistic control. Then a string of clues over years. Highly intelligent juvenile delinquent, truancy. Chose nursing, a 'caring' profession. Stony faced, all the time. Never ever said the words 'please', 'thank you' or - the impossible - ! 'sorry'. Never smiled, showed, or spoke about any emotion. No friends at work or home (apart from me). No relationship with estranged siblings. She checked out my own friends, once only. Periodically making situations to blame me for something. Stormed home from work twice, after accusing others of assaulting her (playing the victim). Nothing was ever her fault. No responsibility for herself. Increasingly condescending toward me. Extraordinary fear of death. Incredibly mean, penny counting grandchildren's gifts, always money only. I always paid for trips and so on - gave her another hold over me in paying me back. One day, she did let slip she had been beaten by her (intellectual) mother with a stick. I felt sorry for her, stuck it out then chose to end the 'relationship' after seven years, as I felt was just an object in her play. Then, all hell erupts. Which I filmed on my phone, to protect myself. Baiting me to make an argument, lies and lies, charming and manipulating others around me claiming I assaulted her (playing the victim), gaslighting me, phoning my own family to lie (called 'triangulation'), impossible to mediate with, glassy 'reptilian' eyes, vicious threats by text messaging... After research, I realised I had been manipulated for seven years by this female - covertly. All the clues fell into place. Even the books she read were fitting. I was her 'narcissistic supply'. Whilst I wished I had been a clinical psychologist, I'm still proudly myself, now recovered from the shock. Back to that one word. The most extreme, untreatable narcissistic personality disorder. It is 'psychopath'. A covert, female psychopath. (Male narcissists are usually overt, except the psychopaths). She was complete with a 'golden child' daughter and 'scapegoat child' always blamed son. Possible causes...abusive childhood plus genetic non-emotion wiring in the brain. Don't feel sorry for them, they know exactly what they see doing! Her mother I met - I now understand her clearly to be a charming extreme narcissist, possibly pychopath. So. Tip. Whether man or woman in such a relationship, don't confront it! Go covert, work out a secret and watertight exit plan. Even if you worry they will pursue you, plan for that. They HATE losing and being exposed! Take care and keep a focus on the sweeter life without them!

Its so sad when you are trying to be good and get treated badly by someone you love

It would be nice to hear from you about schizoid PD.

It seems BPD and NPD have a lot overlap, I see many cross over symptoms. My partner shows a lot of these symptoms but not quite everything. It's hard to tell if I'm over thinking it or whether I am dealing with someone with these problems.

At the moment, i am in the stage of confusion... Am i the narcissist or she? I really can't process all that's happened last month. I definitely need therapy, i am a shadow of myself, mentally and physically. I've lost myself

Best description of covert narcissists and i have seen hours of good content

This is my ex girlfriend 😢

Its a waste of time

Well obviously I'm at the research stage. Looking forward for my full healing and kinda relieved he's not my problem anymore, I truly feel like he's never going to be completely happy. Anyways I deserve to be happy and calm, it was a full state of anxiety being with him. Thanks for this amazing video!

It's not either/or...malignant narcissists manage to cover all the bases, with a giant dose of Machavellian sadism for good measure.

hi thanks for the knowledge

The reason why they cannot be empathetic is because lets first look at what empathy is: Seeing and feeling things from someone elses prespective. Impossible for the narcissist because in their mind the world revolves around them and their needs. When you live in a world when that is furthest from the truth, their delulu starts showing and they start acting entitled and like a spoilt brat. Ive been dealing with narcissist my whole life, grew up with one, dated one more than 15years ago. Im at the age where i need to be writing a book on this sht. If you’re reading this and need a bottom line, there is no other way- you have to leave- for good is the key word here.

28 years married to one. She blamed me for everything. I believed her. I went to counseling because of it and that was my key to freedom. It took over 10 years to realize what I was married to. Even still it was a Christian wedding and I was never going to leave her. When she realized I knew what she was that's when she did the narcissistic drop and took me for more than half my wealth. It's been over 2 years of peace and rebuilding and learning. So thankful I'm out.

If you think youre going to meet a woman who is normal kind and loving you are out of your mind

After you get used to it they consider you trained

This is exactly how I have acted in every relationship. I’m very aware of it now and it’s gotten better. But I can’t help but believe my delusions in my relationship.

Lisa Leblanc: Hello? Feminist Mafia: Ummm, yeah, we're gonna need our Female Covert Narcissist Card back.

Man, I’ve really needed this channel. Thank you.

Holy shit!! The integrity and self worth part is so dead on that it’s frightening. Everything in this video is 100 percent accurate.

First words out of her mouth were " I'm bad and I've always been bad"